We're so grateful you're joining us for a weekend on the coast. Here's everything you need to know to enjoy the celebration.
The celebration extends beyond the ceremony and reception. Below are two optional gatherings — come to one, both, or neither. They're just a chance to spend extra time together in Santa Barbara.
Kick off the wedding weekend at Shaker Mill, a tropical cocktail bar with incredible drinks (think piña coladas, mai tais, and creative rum cocktails). Family is generously hosting this evening, so your first couple rounds are covered!
We'd love to see everyone at 7:00, but if you're still getting settled from travel, just come when you can. We'll be there the whole time. No program, no formalities. Dress up if you'd like (the bride will be in a casual white dress and the groom in a button-down) but whatever you're in is perfect!
418 State St, Santa BarbaraOn the morning of the wedding, Michael and a few friends will surf in the Santa Barbara area. If you'd like to join — whether surfing or watching from the shore — please text Michael at (831) 595-0097.
We'll set up a group text to coordinate carpooling and, if possible, help arrange the transport of wetsuit and board rentals from a local surf shop.
Depending on surfing conditions, this may or may not be an activity for beginners. Afterward, we'll grab a quick and casual lunch before everyone heads back to get ready for the ceremony.
Location TBDThe ceremony takes place aboard a yacht departing from historic Stearns Wharf. We'll say our vows on the Pacific Ocean surrounded by the people we love most (you!!) — then toast with champagne as the sun dips toward the horizon.
Arrival: Please be at the wharf by 4:15 PM to allow time for boarding. The walk down the pier takes about 7–8 minutes. The yacht departs promptly at 4:30 — the ocean doesn't wait!
On the boat: Light bites (charcuterie & crudités), plus a champagne toast. The ceremony will be primarily standing, with seating available for any guests who need it.
Duration: Approximately 2 hours on the water. We'll return to the dock around 6:30 PM.
Weather prep: Santa Barbara weather in April can be unpredictable! It could be a gorgeous sunny day or cool and breezy on the water. We recommend dressing in layers you can easily adjust — a classy cardigan, pashmina, or light blazer over your outfit is a great call. Apply sunblock before you board in case the sun is out! Flat shoes are also recommended, as the pier and deck surfaces can be uneven.
After the yacht docks at Stearns Wharf around 6:30 PM, you'll head to Casa Calma for the reception — about 15–20 minutes up into the beautiful Santa Barbara foothills.
Complimentary valet is provided at Casa Calma, so you'll be greeted right at the door. Parking at the wharf is extremely limited — we strongly recommend carpooling with fellow guests or using a rideshare (Uber/Lyft) to and from Stearns Wharf.
Arrive at Casa Calma, a private estate tucked into the Santa Barbara hills. Valet hands you off, and a champagne toast greets you at the door!
This hour is casual and free-flowing. Wander the gardens, explore the grounds, settle into the evening air!
1545 San Roque Rd, Santa BarbaraA staffed Mediterranean buffet featuring beef, chicken, and vegetarian options, plus a variety of dips, spreads, and seasonal dishes. Gluten-free options will also be available! If you have specific dietary restrictions or allergies, please let us know as soon as possible so we can make sure you're taken care of. Wine and beer will be served throughout the evening. Seating is pre-assigned — we'll have place cards at each table, and tables will be dismissed one at a time to the buffet.
8:00 PM — Dinner is served. Tables are dismissed to the buffet one at a time.
8:30 PM — Toasts from parents, then the floor opens for anyone who'd like to say a few words.
9:00 PM — Enjoy Madonna Inn Cake!
10:00 PM — The evening wraps promptly (Santa Barbara noise regulations). Thank you for sharing this day with us!
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Our recommended dress is coastal evening elegance. Here is a Pinterest board for those who use it :)
Blazers and long pants are required for men. Women are encouraged to wear midi or maxi dresses, or similarly formal attire (blazers, jumpsuits).
We encourage guests to take inspiration from Santa Barbara, the ocean, and jewel-toned elegance. Think deep greens, blues, and other rich hues, along with textures like silk, velvet, or satin. Pearls and ocean-inspired details are very welcome.
Coastal evenings can be chilly — we suggest wearing something warm or bringing layers!
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Color inspiration only — wear whatever makes you feel great.
Late April in SB: highs around 68–72°F. Evenings cool to low 60s. Sunset around 7:35 PM — golden hour on the water will be gorgeous.
Stearns Wharf has public parking for the ceremony. Casa Calma has complimentary valet from 6:30 PM. Carpooling encouraged!
The harbor is typically calm, but if you're prone to seasickness, consider taking Dramamine ~30 minutes beforehand. Indoor space on the boat is sheltered.
Santa Barbara has wonderful options along State Street and near the waterfront. Book early — late April is lovely and popular.
Your presence means the world to us, and truly is the greatest gift.
For those who have asked, we've shared a registry here. Thank you for celebrating this day with us — we can't wait to share it with you.
View Our RegistryMaking a weekend of it? Santa Barbara is magic! Here are a few of our favorites.
Butterfly Beach — the locals' favorite, gorgeous at sunset. Shoreline Park — ocean bluffs with panoramic views.
The Funk Zone — walkable tasting rooms, breweries, and wine bars. A perfect afternoon of tasting and exploring.
Loquita — Spanish tapas and paella on State St. Scarlett Begonia — vibrant brunch spot. Boathouse at Hendry's Beach — seafood with ocean views. Lark — farm-to-table small plates.
State Street — the main drag, walkable with shops and restaurants. Paseo Nuevo — open-air shopping with Spanish architecture.